2024: Postscript - Why Did Kilquhanity Work?
My own personal experience as a Killy Kid was for two years between spring 1968 to spring 1970.
There then followed a term as an assistant farmhand to Nicky Walton. Later in the 1990’s and following on from the Jubilee Celebrations my son Matt was a Killy kid for two years following on from a rather pointless attendance at State Secondary School.
Even later in the mid- ‘90s I was asked by John and Morag Aitkenhead, the Aitkenhead children Neill, Val and Lois, if I would join the Trustees of Kilquhanity and help with the formal closure of the school. This would help with coping with parents, children, staff redundancy, the Charities Commission, finance and so on.
I think there are many factors that come into play when considering the many years of successes at Kilquhanity. But one should not forget that there were some ‘bad times’: inappropriate staff members, financial hardship and some kids that did not ‘fit’ and whose time at Kilquhanity was short-lived by mutual agreement
There is no doubt in my mind that the good years where good due to combinations of factors. I also consider that there were times when contributing factors meant that the school was only just surviving. Times when there were only a handful of kids; times when money was scarce; times when publicity was counter to the benefits of this style of education.
The life of the school can be considered in relation to external events:
The Second World War and Kilquhanity starting; proclaiming it as a safe place for children to learn. The immediate post-war years when the school population declined such that considered closure and was pawning his fathers watch to raise some money.
The 1950s when the school need to make appeals for funding. The 1960s following the publication of Summerhill by A. S. Neill both in the UK and USA resulting in a groundswell of support and influx of American kids to both schools in the years of Peace and Love and Swinging ‘60s. An increase in the wealth of the school.
The ‘70s and ‘80s saw the development of the estate with new workshops, the Dome, the kindergarten developing a time of ‘strength’ and sustainability.
Then the 1990’s entered into with the exuberance of the Jubilee Celebrations but followed by the decline in John Aitkenhead’s health and the inability to find a good management structure; the decline in numbers of pupils and a ‘damning’ HMI Inspection resulting in closure.
There can be no doubt that John Aitkenhead was a man of vision, a man of peace, a conscientious objector in the second war, a scholar, a poet as well as man of physical strength and unbounded energy. A teacher who had listened and learnt from other great men such as William Boyd at Glasgow University and A.S. Neill of Summerhill.
He was, of course, supported and reliant on Morag, his wife, who gave him good counsel and stood with him through all of the successes and the hard times. Together, in 1940, they happened upon Kilquhanity House, a small 7 ½ acre country estate in rural Galloway. An inspirational place to start a school. A big house, steading and grounds to support a small livestock enterprise – close to John’s heart.
Friends joined them, Nan and Arthur Harrison and later John Wilson as well as the poet Crombie Saunders. Soul mates and lifelong friends and supporters. Strength through friendship.
The original School Brochure captured the essence of what John Aitkenhead hoped for his school.
A School for Young Citizens of a New Europe
Freedom – freedom of mind is at stake in the world. free to think for yourself Attendance at classes is voluntary. choice in learning (John posted a copy of the Declaration of Abroath up in the library – informing all of the source of his politics and value of freedom)
The pupils have their own government and share with the adults the responsibility of running the school. democracy with responsibility – the Council Meeting and Useful Work
Education - a balanced community. always a small community school The fullest scope and encouragement to all artistic expression – music, dancing, painting, handwork and gardening.
International in outlook.
John Aitkenhead set out these values and principles in 1940 and he promoted and defended them until his death.
John Aitkenhead is often considered as both a charismatic headteacher and a benign dictator. There is no doubt that he was idolised by many of his staff and many children loved him as both a father figure and teacher.
Kilquhanity was his and there were occasions when he would not allow individual or small collectives of staff to move the school away from routines and traditions that had evolved over many years. Equally with the whole community of kids there were, rare, occasions, when John would veto decisions with the phrase ‘it is strictly taboo . . . . ‘ and that would be the end of the matter.
His manner and thinking would always lend him toward discussion, debate and reason. (Coincidentally, Shinichiro Hori founder of Kinokuni Childrens Village in Japan, another charismatic Head has his own phrase – I don’t think so . . . when an idea is promoted that he disagees with and will not tolerate.)
As the school evolved and the original staff moved on to other adventures Aitkenhead tended toward advertising for staff in the New Statesman magazine. The school had a tendency to attract talented misfits who offered skills which supported those expressive arts which Aitkenhead held dear; whilst he tended toward taking classes in literacy and creative writing.
Aitkenhead also recognised the importance of physical activity and engaged kids and staff with sports, dancing – Scottish Country (of course), gardening and the school’s attempts at agriculture.
Kids of all ages, girls and boys, came from all over the world – an International outlook. Originally a boarding school but later some day kids. Kids could arrive at any time during the school year. My own experience was on the day I visited the school with my mum and dad, we pulled up in the Morris Minor to met by John who promptly asked an american boy, Danny Cohen, to ‘show Andrew around’, whilst Mum and Dad went up to the Top Landing for coffee and a chat with John and Morag. My admission, in effect, was handled by me and Danny!
As children develop so their sexual identity is explored and moulded by their situation amd events. At Kilquhanity adolescents were free to explore relationships and only if under-age intercourse had been acknowledged would John both inform parents and bring the couple into his sitting room for some ‘awareness’ discussion. In my own time there was an occasion when John brought all the adolescent boys together to promote the reading of a Pelican publication: Boys and Sex, which we were all asked to read and pass around. Aware but not deterred!
A small school, a charismatic head, interesting and adventurous staff happy to pursue a child’s personal interest in a subject area. Learning by negotiation and desire. A community making decisions about all aspects of living together. A community reliant on the contributions of one and all to the day-to-day of living together. There were no cleaners or caretaker at Kilquhanity – this work was performed by kids with adults – learning about the responsibility of living together.
A school where there was no physical punishment, a school where justice was practised through the Council Meeting where each one had a vote, where discussion and debate in the Socratic method was cultivated.
Kilquhanity worked because of John Aitkenhead's original vision of how life could change after two world wars if people learnt how to live together in mutual respect and practised the methods of a democratic society where the individual’s right to pursue their own pathway as long as it did not impact negativley on those who shared that community.
Kilquhanity worked because of the place.
Kilquhanity worked because children were allowed to be children.
The joy with Sam and it was a joy, was the way in which he embraced the hard, tough issues of the day from the pulpit. Nobody was left in any doubt about his views on the Bomb or party politics. They were gospel inspired and Christ centred. But few were able to best him for Sam was prepared to put into practice what he believed and spoke about so he would be found on the doorsteps at election time doing that which came so naturally to him.
It has to be fun to dance.
Alastair Aitkenhead (2009)
John Aitkenhead: School Days: 1915 to 28
I was born in 1910 in the village of Low Knightswood, west of Glasgow at the home of my maternal grandmother tho’ my parent’s home was in Renfrew. My mother had gone to her mother’s home for the birth of her second child, her mother being a practising mid-wife.
From age 5 to age 10 I attended a very small school called Blythswood Testimonial School, originally intended for the children of people working on Blythswood Estate.
These years were the last of World War 1 and school children were very much involved in working to help the British war effort. I remember knitting scarves for soldiers. The best children’s toys in those days were German made but we were sworn never to have German toys again.
In school we made cruel caricatures of the Kaiser and German soldiers in spiked helmets. From age 10 -12 I went to a different school because when the War ended my father’s work took him to Ardrossan and the school there was very different.
My first experience of men teachers and of belting. Hardly a lesson without someone being belted, the day starting with the belt for being late for school
Memorising place names in Geography and dates in History was the main occupation. We had ‘drill’ for physical education from a veteran who had been in India under Lord Roberts in the famous march from Kabul to Kandahar.’
From age 12 – 18 I was at an ‘academy’. Very different, many new subjects from specialist teachers, but still lots of belting and many classes were conducted in ex-army huts but heated by big stoves.I think teachers hated them but the kids didn’t mind them at all.
School uniforms were just being introduced in those days. I never possessed a school blazer myself. The classes were not called Forms 1 -7 on when I went to the academy at first but in my second year I was in Form II and not class 8.’
‘At Renfrew until I was 10 in our spare time we played at the ferry across the Clyde. It was dangerous. To us it was exciting. You could steal a ride by holding on to the big frame of the single head lamp. Lorries and Cabs drawn by horses were common and stealing a ride on these was fun. We played football on the street often with a paper ball.
We flew kites. At Ardrossan we spent hours and hours at the harbour, where cargo ships were loading coal or unloading iron-ore and where ships were being repaired in an exiting dry-dock where my father would be working. Watching a diver going down to examine the damage below the water-line of a boat was always fascinating. #
A famous four masted sailing ship called The SS Lancing later sunk by a single torpedo! came to Ardrossan from America frequently, with cargoes of wood, and we would go around to the lighthouse to see her make the entrance to the harbour, from more than a mile out.
SS Lansing 1901)
Also, I learned to milk cows at a local dairy farm and I earned two shillings and nine pence a week delivering morning milk in the town.
‘At primary school, singing was my favourite subject. Reason could have been that my parents were both singers. At secondary school I still had my singing classes but in 4th Year all boys missed a year of singing whether their voice was broken or not. But from 12 -18 my favourite lesson was Gym.
It was an excellent Gymnasium all with existing new apparatus, and we had one of the first men graduates from a new professional training course at Dunfermline. After though I loved woodwork.
I was familiar with tools, my father being a ship’s carpenter, always making or mending at home. When I was 16 Rugby was introduced and I loved that, becoming hooker in the First 15.
I enjoyed English classes with a very good teacher and for one year a most exciting Maths teacher who made Euclidean Geometry a kind of fascinating magic. I really wanted to become a Gym teacher at the Dunfermline College but because I got 4 god Highers I was persuaded to go to Glasgow University to study English Literature.’
I was one of his first students, and I was one of the first who took the complete education degree. But education that I was involved in was in the Boy Scout movement. I was running two or three scout meetings a week. And that was freedom of attendance. Nobody ever forced a boy to join the Boy Scouts. But if you join the Boy Scouts, you have to learn to pass various standards in practical things, you see? And then you learn by doing, by going to camp, you know? So I was really being an educator at night.
Sam Aitkenhead on the left with Alistair, Angus and John
After graduating John entered the teaching profession first in Campbelltown, Argyll, and latterly at Darvel Academy, Ayrshire, under the Headship of Mr Mowat.
. . . he was a drinker; my mother was what we now call a battered wife,; we could never invite people into the house in case dad got angry.
Ardrossan Shipyard - Queen Mary under construction (1932)
Morag attended Ardrossan Academy, one year behind John. She became aware of him early in her life and it is said, fell in love with him early in her time at secondary school.
Although she formed friendships, especially with a girl named Nan Edgar, Morag spent considerable time in solitary pursuits. She was an avid reader of her mother’s Red Letter magazine and her aunt’s People’s Friend. She joined Ardrossan library which operated out of a local shop and ‘read anything and everything.’
Norland Nannies hard at work.
A transcript of a conversation between Jonathan Croall and Morag & John in the Croall Archive, that is now held at Summerhill School. One extract explains Morag’s first meeting with Neill:
“The first time I met him he was speaking in Glasgow in 1930 at the Healthy Life Society. I remember we just fell in love with him – I don’t remember what he said, but we just liked him so much.'
1990-1996: Endings
John Aitkenhead was in his 80s as Kilquhanity House School entered the 1990s. Declining health, changes in leadership and pupil numbers along with a damning HMI report led to closure of the school.
A short but difficult article to write!
At the Jubilee celebrations in 1990 rumours had spread that John Aitkenhead was to announce the closure of the school. He quashed these rumours making it clear that that was not his intention.
As the 1990s progressed pupil admissions began to decline.
John had appointed Richard Jones as his deputy. Richard had been teaching woodwork and other crafts at Kilquhanity for the past twenty years. He was a skilled woodworker and musical instrument maker. As former professional musician he was instrumental in the recordings of the Courtyard Music Group albums in the 1970s.
As the 1990s progressed John’s health deteriorated further, and he relied on both Richard and Gavin Aitkenhead to manage the day-to-day running of the school.
In 1993 John appointed Gavin as headmaster of Kilquhanity.
In theory Gavin and Richard Jones were given responsibility for the management of the school. John was to act as consultant.
In conversations with Gavin he acknowledged that although John had given him the role of headteacher, John, was unable to give Gavin complete responsibility. There followed many disagreements with John unable to ‘let go of the reins’ and Gavin frustrated and impotent over many issues.
By this time Gavin Aitkenhead was living off-site in New Galloway with his young family, and he was only willing to take on the role of Headteacher as long as the school became a day school only – that is no more boarders.
In May 1994 John issued the following statement:
In my records there is attached to John’s copy a hand-written note that says:
‘This statement is made in the sincere hope that it will be provide a basis for a good working relationship between Gavin (Aitkenhead ed.) and Richard (Jones, Deputy Head and Woodwork teacher ed.) – as essential that would require to be tested in the coming year.’
Kilquhanity was John’s school and had been for the previous 54 years. I do not think he was, at this time, trusting that Gavin and Richard could take it on board and run the school as John would wish.
On the 5th June 1994 John and Morag were on holiday in Skyros where John received a phone call from Richard Jones. John’s note of this phone call states:
Phone call at Dino’s from RichardA tiny bit of hopeResigned as DeputyEverything on hold till we meet.Richard sends love to MoragBoth ask us to enjoy remainder of holiday.’
On the 3rd of June 1994 John wrote to Gavin
On the 7th June 1994 John composed a poem to Gavin
The last line read:‘For young an auld livin’ the gather.’
Like all of John’s poetry this one came from the heart of the man.
In September 1996 Her Majesty’s Inspectors of Education (HMI) carried out an Inspection visit of Kilquhanity house School.
As John states below the HMI report was ‘Damning . . . ‘ of the school. On 3rd of December 1996 John issued the following statement to the Staff, on the future of the school;
This was followed on the same day with a statement to parents. Shortly after this I was approached to become a Trustee of Kilquhanity to work alongside other Trustees and the family to manage the closure of the school. The following year the Aitkenhead family, staff, kids and parents all struggled with the closure; there was much anger and sadness. For once in its life Kilquhanity was unable to celebrate.
In 2002 the Kilquhanity estate was sold to Kinokuni Childrens Village (Japan). Staff and children from the 5 Kinokuni schools have continued to visit since then. (at the time of writing 2024)
In 2003 Morag Aitkenhead wrote the following to Shinichiro Hori the Director of Kinokuni Childrens Village, Japan, and the new owner of Kilquhanity.
1946-1996: Buildings
From ‘posh’ country house to adventure playground in 50 years!
It has always tickled me that Kilquhanity House a rather sedate country house evolved into Kilquhanity House School a seven-acre adventure playground.
The story goes that the house as pictured above had a grass tennis court and on the edge of the court there had been installed a bell pull which was connected underground to the kitchen to summon a ‘lacky’ for refreshments. The courtyard had a coach house wherein the former owners kept their Rolls Royce.
The importance and significance of children being allowed to build huts and dens has been discussed in the article:
2011 Melanie Rose: In Pursuit of Solitude.
The Kilquhanity House estate grounds and buildings were developed throughout the life of the school often with the participation of the kids.
As the school grew, and finances allowed, existing buildings were converted and new building erected. As one might expect, external Trades were used only when necessary and if staff and kids could join in they would.
In the 1950s the Lodge was extended to add a bedroom, kitchen, and bathroom to develop the building into accommodation for the older girls.
The agricultural steading buildings were converted into new bedrooms, bathrooms and classrooms including the Science Lab.
Maidenhead Mews was one proposal for changes drawn up by staff
The former Coach House was converted into the Wee House with bedroom accommodation upstairs and the new Pottery and what became the Kindergarten on the ground floor.
The Electrical supply was upgraded and connected into these area
In the 1960s Mike Kerr supervised the building of the Log Cabin with its under-floor entrance. Unfortunately, I do not have a photograph
In the 1970s Kilquhanity purhased ex-military buildings from Dundonald Camp in Ayrshire, Under Nicky Waltons supervision staff and kids complete the demolition and removal of the buildings which were transported to Kilquhanity and re-erected, with some modifications into the Site – workshops, sewing room, art room, bicycle repair room and a wood store below. John Aitkenhead exclaimed how great it was ‘to turn swords into ploughshares’.
John Aitkenhead wrote his own account of importance of building at Kilquhanity (date unknown)
The school purchase the now defunct railway signal box at Castle Douglas and under Mike Todd’s supervision staff and kids demolished it and it became the beautiful Dome – used as a Meeting room and Theatre, as well as other activities
Every Last Bit Salvaged; The Dome Signal Box Reborn
Later in the 1970’s Mike Todd designed his own accommodation Toddy’s Cabin which was erected in the Hard Tennis Court. The building was basically a single room on nine tree trunk pillar supports. The curved roof was supported by laminated beams formed by Mike with help from ki
Phil Hancock is the kid.
In later years the Stable roof was replaced.
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